The popularity contest of blogging and gaining links and traffic doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time and work.

Content is king? Not in the heavily saturated blogosphere. Whatever idea you have, however you choose to present it, someone, somewhere  will do it as well or better.

Even legendary martial artist Bruce Lee understood this. While  the Little Dragon’s popularity would have earned him a massive  following had he lived long enough to blog, you probably don’t have that cushion of love.

“Bloggers link more often to their friends than anyone else.
If you write a reasonably good piece of content that interests
their audience, they’ll link to you, mainly because they like
you,”

Anyone who can get into a popular blog with a  guest post probably has enough high-powered friends to get links  from them already.

Networking in person, commenting intelligently on their posts  online, and conducting an interesting interview of the desired  popular blogger offer chances at longer term relationships that  could lead to inbound linking and the followers who click them.

Being ignored isn’t any fun. Neither is hard work, but without the  latter, it’s difficult to resolve the former without some ultra-rare bit of serendipity happening for your blog. I think it’s better to depend on the hard work than a fleeting bit of good fortune.

So my advice is to post your comments on other “established” blogs in the mean time prepare your blog for clicks from that “comment posted” blog.